a) i am responsible for ALL of my own mistakes and shortcomings, no doubt.
b) EVERYONE has been in a shitty place in life, where they are NOT acting like themselves in any fashion. this does not mean it's okay to judge/cast out/crucify. love is actually a much better recipe to help bring them out.
c) don't throw stones. ever.
d) be aware of your actions, and how they can hurt and wound other people. sometimes you carry blood on your hands whether you like it or not, because you were thoughtless.
e) never, ever let the way somebody does or doesn't treat you convince you of your own worth. know it in your own heart, so nobody can take that knowing away from you.